Currently, I am writing this blog, with Little Einsteins going on in the background for my daughter, and a part of me feels…weird. Well, I feel something. It’s been a while since my last blog post, and honestly, I missed writing, but I also appreciated the break. My life has changed dramatically, since the time I slowed down on writing. I started a new job and bought a house, which came with a move to a new city. While I appreciated all of these changes, I knew that I couldn’t stop what I believe my purpose to be, and that is drawing out the success of others around me, one small move at a time.
So without further notice, we begin the small moves that bring you that much closer to where you want to be. This one is a good move if you’re just starting out on your journey. It was actually the theme of the last workshop I did for my local meetup group Cultivated Sisters. This move is to lay out your deepest desires.
Really, Zinga, I know my deepest desires!
I get that, they may swell within you and you may think about them fairly regularly, but until you write down your deepest desire and write in a way that shows you are committed to achieving them, then they will always come and go as figments of your imagination. Make it concrete! Write your desires somewhere, declare it out loud, and put a date on achieving it.
Write your desires somewhere, declare it out loud, and put a date on achieving it.
This is a move that goes back to one of the OGs of self-help success, Napoleon Hill, author of Think and Grow Rich. He writes, “whatever the mind can conceive, and believe, it can achieve” and that first step to believing that conception is realizing it on paper.
So for one more move this week, find a space and a place to write your deepest desires, write as if you’re writing on a magic paper that will fulfill whatever you wish. Then leave it alone for an hour or so and review it. Question what you wrote, make it more specific, add more details, bring it to life.
To help refine what you wrote here are some questions to stimulate your thoughts:
- What am I missing from my life?
- What is in overabundance in my life?
- What do I want more of?
- How is my life working?
- How could I change how my life is working?
- What would that change bring ideally?
Try not to underestimate this small move, it could be the difference between mediocre and magnificent.
What did you write on your “magic” paper?